Ditch the Nice Girl Complex

I’ll take honesty, compassion and authenticity over “nice” any day. These things move mountains and transform lives. Nice, although nice (excuse the pun), doesn’t change or do anything much. Nice pales in comparison to unleashed joy or unbounded generosity.  In fact, I suggest you, me and everyone uses nice as a scapegoat for hiding how […]

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Falling Into a Love Affair With Who We Are

As women, part of our biological wiring is to care and tend to the needs of others. This is undoubtedly part of the expression of feminine energy. Yet, so many of us aren’t in tune with ourselves. And because of this, we miss the signs our bodies and should are giving us when it’s time […]

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Take a breath. You’re good. I’m good. It’s all good.

Maybe you’re like me? When I was 5 I struggled in school. On my report card, my scores were low but my teacher said “Nicki is very kind to the other children.” This is the the way it went all the way to my early thirties. Consideration, kindness and caring came before me. No one […]

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Sacred Self Love – Virtual Course Details

This virtual course is a small group of women from all over the world who are ready to dive into the depth and magnificence of their womanhood. We will have weekly sessions on various topics, group coaching, and exercises to deepen your experience of loving yourself. Tribe and community is essential. We will learn from […]

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No Mud, No Lotus: We all Want the Pretty Flower and Not the Mud

Here’s the dichotomy.  We are a society who is WAY too hard on ourselves. Nothing we do is good enough. Then when it’s time to grow or change something, we’re not fast enough. We’re not patient with the process. We crush under these insane expectations of where we “should” be verses meeting ourselves where we […]

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