September 1, 2018
Ditch the Nice Girl Complex
Iâ€™ll take honesty, compassion and authenticity over â€śniceâ€ť any day. These things move mountains and transform lives. Nice, although nice (excuse the pun), doesnâ€™t change or do anything much. Nice pales in comparison to unleashed joy or unbounded generosity.Â
In fact, I suggest you, me and everyone uses nice as a scapegoat for hiding how we truly feel or who we truly are. And what sucks about that, is that we donâ€™t get to be who we really are and people donâ€™t get the real versions of us. Kinda empty donâ€™t you think?Â
Look and see where you are using niceties to hide on the sidelines rather than being in the game:
-â€śOkâ€ť when you mean â€śNo.â€ť
-Thatâ€™s fine.â€ť When you mean â€śIâ€™m not comfortable with this and I really need some questions answered before we continue.â€ť
-Ignoring and tolerating people and situations to avoid conflict or rocking the boat.
-Choosing nice over your needs
So I ask you this: What if you werenâ€™t being so nice? What would you say or do instead? Then say or do it and watch your world change.
Join me for a VIRTUAL workshop for women on Monday night 8/27 @5pm PST/7pm CST/8pm EST. Unleash Your Badass Self: Ditching the Nice Girl Complex (without being a meanie). DM or Venmo me to register:Â https://venmo.com/code?user_id=2035678913232896159
Other fun stuff? Ask me about my VIRTUAL Sacred Self Love Course for women (starts September), Yoga Festival in San Diego (Oct) and Yoga/Coaching retreat Feb 2019 in MexicoÂ Â #empoweringwomemÂ #soul#selfliveÂ #growrh